Insecurity amazes me. It is truly without bounds. But, simultaneously, while it incessantly blows my mind, it also is completely understandable to me, because i have experienced it before, just as everyone else. it is the basis of civilization and society itself. A person, way back when, said, well if u watch my back while i watch urs, then i will b safer then on my own. And poof. society occurs.
Possibly the most baffling thing about insecurity, is the way in which it governs ones actions, subconsciously, so deep down in the depths of the psyche, that people will go ahead and do things, attributing them to conscious thought or instinct. No. that is insecurity staring u right in the face. THAT is was makes you fuck over ur best friend, that is wat makes u hurt those u love, because, at its core, survival of the fittest says that if anyone if more fit then u, then they are a threat. Insecurity without conscious is a terrible thing. It will end all the relationships around u. Just as negativity begets more negativity, insecurity simply expresses itself through negativity. so really, if ppl dont wake up, then they will sleep themselves away from possibly the best ppl that are around them, just by subconsciously worrying abt themselves.
A true word was never said- insecurity is what causes marriages to dissolve, what creates a bully in school or in your boss, what makes parents abuse their kids and kids abuse their elders. Its really very simple- if you don’t value yourself, you can’t value anyone else, so you might seeks to devalue them to compensate- totally destructive to self and others!